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Yevamot 56: Kohein and “Zonah”

jyungar May 2, 2022

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Under ordinary circumstances, if a married woman is raped, the halakha recognizes that the forbidden sexual act happened against her will and she remains permitted to her husband. A particularly painful situation arises if the woman who is raped is married to a kohen. In such a case halakha requires the couple to divorce, since as a kohen, the husband is not allowed to be married to a woman who has had a forbidden sexual encounter – which has happened to his wife, even though it was not her fault in any way.

We explore the evolving notion of “Zonah” in Bible and Rabbinics and modern issues with kohanim and marriage….

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The Meeting of Tamar and Judah, by Jacopo

Yevamot 55: Definition of Coitus

jyungar May 1, 2022

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The need to define the act of bi’ah (sexual intercourse) is essential in order to know when that significant act has taken place in a number of halakhic settings.

Our daf suggests that in the vast majority of cases, the definition is ha’arah – a simple act of touching (in Shmuel’s words, “a kiss”). Although the focus of the Gemara is on the male organ, it appears that the conclusion is clear: penetration – of even miniscule proportions – of the man into the woman.

We explore these notions of coitus and its definition in antiquity with the work of Brodsky and Boyarin.

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Yevamot 54: Homosexuality and Hitler

jyungar April 30, 2022

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We are told about the rabbis' views on sexual intercourse between men.

Because Torah verses state that men cannot lie with men as they lie with women, no form of intercourse that could happen between a man and a woman is permitted between two men.

Again, the beginning of the act of intercourse is all that is required.

We review the issue of homosexuality in the community and the incidence of mental illness and those who attempt psychiatric conversion therapies of dubious science.

We consider Hitler’s attack on Jewish homosexuals during the NAZI period and how that might affect our attitudes in not handing him a posthumous victory by vilifying these folk.

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The Rape of Dinah Giuliano Bugiardini

Yevamot 53: Yevama Raped

jyungar April 29, 2022

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Our new Mishna is the start of Perek VI. The Mishna teaches that intercourse is valid in yibum regardless of consent, coercion, or type of intercourse. Further, any type of intercourse between a yavam and a yevama who is forbidden to him by Torah or rabbinical law disqualifies the yevama from marrying into the priesthood.

We return to the issue of consent and the halachic ramifications of nonconsensual intercourse, i.e.rape.

We review modern issues of coercive relationships and the feminist readings of the rape of Dinah.

And the Reskin/Greenberg debate with Grodimer regarding homosexuality in orthodoxy, the Stanford rape case and Hervey Weinstein’s influence on the discourse.

Finally the use of rape and adultery in the midrash of Toldos Yeshu.

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Noah and family getting the covenant

Yevamot 52: Ger Toshav

jyungar April 28, 2022

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Our Daf states: “Rav ordered that lashes be given to any person who betrothed by cohabitation, who betrothed in the open street, or who betrothed without previous negotiation; who annulled a letter of divorce, or who made a declaration against a letter of divorce; who was insolent towards the representative of the rabbis, or who allowed a rabbinical ban upon him to remain for thirty days and did not come to the Beit Din to request the removal of that ban; and of a son-in-law who lives in his father-in-law's house”….

We further explore the historical development of the Halacha regarding the Ger Toshav…

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Yevamot 51: Redaction of Mishnah

jyungar April 27, 2022

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The fifth perek of Masechet Yevamot focuses on one main topic – the relationship between the various responses that the surviving brother (the yavam) can perform with the widow (the yevamah). There are four possible responses, two of them taught by the Torah and two suggested by the Sages of the Mishnah:

bi’ah (sexual relations), which would complete the process of yibum, so that the two would now be married

chalitzah, the ceremonial rejection of yibum, which would free the widow to marry anyone she wants

ma’amar, in which case the yavam offers a ring (or another object of value) to the yevamah, mimicking a marriage ceremony. In such a case they have fulfilled yibum on a Rabbinic level

get (a divorce document), which would preclude the possibility of fulfilling yibum. Even though on a biblical level a get has no meaning in this relationship, the Sages treat the divorce as having enough power to force the yavam and yevamah to choose the option of chalitzah.

We use this opportunity to study the redaction of the Mishnah through the eye of Moshe Klein , Yaakov Elman and graham Walfish.

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On The Wings Of Freedom - Birds Flying And Broken Chains - Charge Concept

Yevamot 50: דִּרְשׁוּ ה׳ בְּהִמָּצְאוֹ

jyungar April 26, 2022

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Menasheh interrogated Isaiah with the following 3 questions:

Your Rebbi Moshe said (in the Torah) "A person will not see Me and live", but you said "I saw Hashem sitting on a lofty throne"!

Your Rebbi Moshe said "Who is like Hashem Elokeinu whenever we call to Him", but you said "Seek Hashem when He is found"!

Your Rebbi Moshe said "I will complete the number of your days", but you said (to my father Chizkiyahu) "I will add 15 years to your days"!

Question: How can we resolve Menasheh's questions?

Answer (for "I saw Hashem" - Beraisa): All (other) Nevi'im saw Hashem through a glass that distorts; Moshe saw through a clear glass.

Answer (for "Seek Hashem when He is found"): Hashem is always found to a congregation, but not always to an individual.

When is He found to an individual?

Rav Nachman responded: He is found during the 10 days between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur.

After reviewing the new Mishnah in Perek V we explore the notion of ״דִּרְשׁוּ ה׳ בְּהִמָּצְאוֹ״

and how it operates during the days of penitence.

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Cod. Karlsruhe 3378 26r (Speculum Humanae Salvationis). See Richard Bernheimer, “The Martyrdom of Isaiah.” The Art Bulletin 34.1 (1952): 30

Yevamot 49: Who Killed Isaiah?

jyungar April 25, 2022

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Rabbi Shimon ben Azay reports that he found a scroll in Jerusalem that accused King Menashe as having killed the prophet Yeshayahu.

Rava comments that that Menashe did not simply murder him, rather he put him on trial for heresies that appear among his prophecies.

Although Yeshayahu could explain each one of them, he chose not to do so, because he knew that Menashe would kill him in any case, and he preferred that Menashe should not be held responsible for murder.

We explore the midrashim and the apocryphal text of the Ascension of Isaiah that claims he was sawed in half when hiding in a cedar tree. This then passes on to Christian and Muslim traditions.

There is a tradition of martyrdom of prophets or which Isaiah is an early example.

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The Prisoner, Evelyn De Morgan ca. 1907

Yevamot 48:The Beautiful Captive

jyungar April 24, 2022

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One difficult halakha that appears in the Torah is the law of eshet yefat to’ar – if a Jewish soldier desires a woman captured in battle, the Torah forbids him to rape her (as is, unfortunately, the case in most armies). Recognizing that in the heat of battle men may want to behave in ways that are not acceptable under normal circumstances, the Torah concedes that the woman can be taken, but she is to be given a month to mourn the loss of her family, and only then will the soldier be given a choice to marry her or to set her free.

Regarding an eshet yefat to’ar the Torah rules (Devarim 21:12) that she should shave her head and “do” her nails. The definition of this term is subject to a disagreement between Rabbi Eliezer and Rabbi Akiva. Rabbi Eliezer rules that she should cut her nails short, while Rabbi Akiva believes that the Torah commands her to allow them to grow.

We explore the license provided by the Torah and how we reconcile this with moral propriety.

We review the history of rape during war and tragically relevant during the current war inn Ukraine.

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Yevamot 47:Principles of Conversion

jyungar April 23, 2022

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Conversion to Judaism involves a number of stages. The potential convert must accept the laws of Judaism, if he is male he must undergo a brit milah (circumcision) and he must go to the mikvah for ritual immersion.

What would such a person’s status be were he to become circumcised without having gone to the mikvah?

We find a discussion of this question in a baraita.

The chachamim rule that both are essential for conversion, and one without the other is meaningless. Thus, such a person is not considered Jewish until he has completed the process.

Rabbi Yehoshua says that we can accept someone who has not completed both, just as the imahot – women who became converts – only went to the mikvah without circumcision.

Rabbi Eliezer agrees that a lack of mikvah will not keep the person from becoming Jewish, pointing out that our forefathers also did not immerse in a mikvah when they had a brit milah.

We explore the process of conversion and the problems in modern day Israel for those from heterodox traditions wishing to participate in our faith.

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Yevamot 46: Milah without Tevilah

jyungar April 22, 2022

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Conversion to Judaism involves a number of stages. The potential convert must accept the laws of Judaism, if he is male he must undergo a brit milah (circumcision) and he must go to the mikvah for ritual immersion.

What would such a person’s status be were he to become circumcised without having gone to the mikvah?

We find a discussion of this question in a baraita.

The chachamim rule that both are essential for conversion, and one without the other is meaningless. Thus, such a person is not considered Jewish until he has completed the process.

When slaves decided to convert to Judaism, like all others, they had to immerse and become circumcised (if they were male).

If a slave declared that s/he was intending to convert just before immersing, S/he could convert to Judaism and thus belong to his/her slave owner only as a labourer but not in body.

If the slave owner witnessed the immersion including such a statement, it was assumed that the slave owner agreed with the slave's decision.

We explore the halachic status of the get who converts who had undergone his Brit Milah and was waiting to recover until he was ready for his Tevilah to complete his conversion asked if he was permitted to observe Shabbat during this interim period. It turns out that there is considerable discussion of this topic in the Teshuvot of the past two hundred years.

We review variety of recent issues regarding conversion an/or immersion.

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Yevamot 45:Lying With Good Intent

jyungar April 21, 2022

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Our daf relates that Rav was approached and asked about the personal status of someone who had a Jewish mother and non-Jewish father.

When Rav replied that he believed such a person to be perfectly acceptable, the questioner – who was, apparently, the product of such a union – asked to marry Rav’s daughter. Rav refused.

Upon witnessing the exchange, Rav’s grandson, Shimi bar Chiya asked: ‘People say that in Media a camel can dance on a kab (a small measure); here is the kab, here is the camel and here is Media, but there is no dancing’ – i.e. people exaggerate about events that happen in a far-away place, but here, when your ruling is being put to the test, you are not willing to support your position with an action. Rav replied that even if this man were like Yehoshua bin Nun, he would not be willing to allow his daughter to marry him.

We explore the crisis of shiduchim and the halacha of lying on the resume….

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A Jewish wedding (1903) by Jozef Israëls

Yevamot 44: Marry Someone Your Age!

jyungar April 20, 2022

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MISHNA: In a case of four brothers married to four women and some of the brothers died childless, their wives thereby become yevamot. If the eldest of the brothers who survived wished to consummate the levirate marriage with all of his yevamot, he has permission to do so.

The Baraita demurs, we advise him as follows:

If he was a young man and she an elderly woman or if he was an elderly man and she a young woman, they say to him:

What do you want with a young woman when you are elderly? Or: What do you want with an elderly woman when you are young? Go after your own kind, i.e., a woman of a similar age, and do not place discord in your household that could be caused by marrying a woman of a significantly different age.

From the baraita it is apparent that if consummating the levirate marriage will ultimately lead to contention between the couple, it is preferable to perform ḥalitza. Similarly, in the case of the mishna, marrying four women will likely lead to contention since it is difficult to support so many people, and poverty will lead to strife.

Therefore, the yavam should not be allowed to consummate levirate marriages with all of them.

We explore the notion of age differences in halacha and the success of such marriages using modern statistics.

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The Arch of Titus

Yevamot 43: Personal vs. Communal Loss

jyungar April 19, 2022

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In the Mishnah (41a), Rebbi Yosi permits a woman (who was divorced) to do Erusin with a second husband immediately without having to wait three months. The only exception is a woman whose husband died, in which case the woman must wait before she remarries, not because of the requirement of "Havchanah" but because of her Aveilus.

Our Daf distinguishes between avelut hadashah and avelut yeshanah, "new" mourning and "old," historical mourning - or, expressing the same thought in a different idiom,

between avelut de-yahid and avelut de-rabbim, private and national-communal mourning.

The first, avelut hadashah, is caused by a death or disaster which strikes a family or an individual. It is a primordial, instinctual, spontaneous response of man to evil, to the traumatic confrontation with death, to the impact of catastrophe and disaster.

The second category, avelut yeshanah, is due to a historic disaster that took place 1,900 years ago. This category is the handiwork of man. There is no spontaneous reaction to some new event which has just transpired, for nothing new has happened which should justify grief.

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Necropolis of Isola Sacra: Tomb 100

Yevamot 42: 7th vs. 8th Month Fetal Viability

jyungar April 18, 2022

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Our Daf determined that in order to clarify the paternity of a child which might be born, a woman must wait three months after the death of her husband before remarrying.

The Gemara then analyzes why a three-month period is necessary in order to satisfy this question.

It is clear that one month is not enough, because if a child will be born seven months later, we would not know if it was an eight-month child of the first husband or s seven-month child of the second husband.

The Gemara probes, however, to determine why waiting two and a half months would not be sufficient.

We explore the ancient cross cultural notion of viability of fetus at 7month but not 8 months.

How this carries into modern day halachic determinations.

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The Prophet Elijah and the Angel in the desert, Peter Paul Rubens

Yevamot 41: Elijah as Ultrasound

jyungar April 17, 2022

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If a man died childless, the yavam may not consummate the levirate marriage with either sister because it is possible that he will do so with the sister who was not betrothed to his brother, who is therefore forbidden to him as the sister of a woman who is bound to him by a levirate bond. This is in fact the case of the baraita, and the baraita teaches that she performs ḥalitza, even though she is not permitted to enter into levirate marriage.

The Gemara rejects the proof: How can these cases be compared? There, in the case of uncertainty, if Elijah were to come and say that the man betrothed this one of the sisters, then she would be eligible for ḥalitza and levirate marriage. It is clear, then, that fundamentally the sister who was betrothed is actually eligible for levirate marriage, and it is merely a lack of knowledge that prevents her from entering into it.

However, here, with regard to a woman during the first three months following her previous marriage, if Elijah were to come and say that this woman is not pregnant, would one pay heed to him and would we allow the yavam to consummate levirate marriage?

Certainly not, as is evident from the fact that a minor girl, who cannot become pregnant, must also wait three months. Evidently, the requirement to wait three months applies in all situations, even those in which the reason for the requirement is irrelevant. Therefore, by virtue of that decree the yevama is considered to be fundamentally ineligible for levirate marriage and similarly is ineligible for ḥalitza.

We explore the use of Elijah in determining halacha or in this case acting as an ultrasound to detect a pregnancy in the talmud and other historical aspects of Eliyahu especially how he crept into the haggadah.

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Yevamot 40: Gluttony

jyungar April 16, 2022

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Wasn’t it taught by Reish Lakish that one who eats gluttonously on Yom Kippur is exempt from liability for violating the prohibition of “… that shall not afflict…”

Our daf’s conclusion is clear; namely, one who eats gluttonously on Yom Kippur does not violate the prohibition against eating on Yom Kippur, because gluttonous eating is not defined as eating.

Tosafos answers (3) that there are two types of gluttonous eating; the more severe type of gluttonous eating is when one is full to the point that the thought of additional eating is reviled. Eating under this condition is not defined as eating, as implied by our Gemara.

The less severe form of eating, which is defined halachically as eating, is when a person is not interested in eating because he is full but has not yet reached the point that the thought of eating makes him ill.

These guidelines are cited by Mishnah Berurah which rules that if a person eats when feeling full he is still obligated to make a beracha before and after he partakes.

If, however, he is full to the point that food appears disgusting he does not make a beracha before or after eating, since that act of gluttonous eating is not defined as eating.

We explore the halachic parameters of eating the Afikomen when full and the notion of gluttony.

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Portrait of Henry VIII by Hans Holbein

Yevamot 39: Which is Preferable?

jyungar April 15, 2022

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In earlier periods when the yavam and yevamah had pure intentions, and performed yibum with the intention of fulfilling the mitzvah, yibum was preferable.

In later years, when people could no longer be relied upon to have the proper intent, chalitzah became the preferred option.

This most basic question is discussed on our daf, where we find a disagreement between Abba Shaul and the Chachamim.

Abba Shaul argues that a person who performs yibum because he finds the yevamah beautiful, because he wants to be married to her or for some other reason (the Rivan suggests that this refers to monetary gain), it is as though he engaged in a forbidden sexual act.

The Hakhamim point to the passage (Devarim 25:5) that commands the yavam to “come upon” her, and see no qualifications in the performance of the mitzvah.

We explore the notion of intent and heterodox opinions regarding yibbum and Chalitzah and which is preferable nowadays.

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Her Future Dowry by Antoine Jean Bail

Yevamot 38: Women's Inheritance

jyungar April 14, 2022

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It was traditional for the wife to also bring financial assets into the marriage, which were divided into two –

Nikhsei melug, which are possessions that remain the property of the woman. While the couple is married, the husband can derive benefit from this property. When the marriage ends, they remain hers, in whatever condition they may be.

Nikhsei tzon barzel, which are possessions that become the property of the husband. Their value is written into the ketubah, and in the event that their marriage comes to an end – if the husband dies or if they become divorced – the wife will be reimbursed for the full amount, either from the estate if he died or from him if they divorced.

When it is uncertain whether or not a grown man is the child of a deceased father or the child of a yavam (because the man's mother may have become pregnant before or after participating in yibum), we run into many problems.

Today we focus in on inheritance.

The rabbis discuss a number of different cases. Each case allows us to understand the intricacies of decision-making in uncertain circumstances.

Halachot of inheritance teach that inheritance is given to heirs. Without heirs, it is split within the family along generational lines. For example, a father's inheritance is split between his sons.

Would the heir in question (the son of the deceased father or possibly the son of the yavam) be given a larger portion of his deceased father's inheritance, for he is that man's son, or should he receive a smaller portion of inheritance only after the yavam and his other brothers have split the wealth?

We explore the nature of women’s inheritance rights from biblical times until modern.

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Babylonian Marriage Market by Edwin Long, 1875, Royal Holloway College, London

Yevamot 37: Mutah, Temporary Marriages

jyungar April 13, 2022

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"Married Jewish male seeks company of Jewish single female for purposes of short-term marriage."

According to a report that appears in our daf, the equivalent of the above personal ad was published by, Rav and Rav Nahman, in the course of their travels.
The former, when journeying to Dardashir, and the latter when going to Shekhansib, would announce: "Who will be my wife for the day?”

In order to arrange for temporary marriages that would be in force only for the duration of their sojourns.

We explore the notion of temporary marriage in halacha and the Mutah in Islamic law.

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