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A wide-ranging commentary on the daily page of Talmud.

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Nedarim 6: Hinting at Marriage

jyungar October 31, 2022

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We have already discussed the concept of yadot nedarim – a “short form” statement or intimation that creates a vow even though it is not an entirely clear statement. 

Our daf examines the concept of yad in other areas of halakha. Will a yad work in the case of kiddushin – betrothal? When separating pe’a? When giving charity? 

How clear does the statement need to be in these cases?

With regard to kiddushin, there is a basic difference between taking a vow and creating a marriage. 

While a neder works entirely through a verbal statement, kiddushin needs not only a statement but also an act of marriage – usually the transfer of money or a contract. 

Will yad work in such a case as well? 

We examine intimations of betrothal and the role of amir in kiddushin, as well as kiddushin as a speech act.

How do non orthodox marriages fit into this halachic scheme?

We review the curious hybrid of tradition and modernity through the lens of the Shertok family debate.

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This is Julian Ungar-Sargon's personal website. It contains poems, essays, and podcasts for the spiritual seeker and interdisciplinary aficionado.​